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James Bond Party at the Kensington Roof Gardens feedback.

2012-02-07T02:01:00.001-08:00

Hi Jolanta,
A quick note to say a big Thank You for the great time last Friday evening at the Roof Gardens. I really enjoyed it.
All the best,
John

James Bond Party at The Kensington Roof Gardens

2012-02-07T01:38:00.000-08:00

We were honored to invite you to the James Bond party sponsored by www.CityDating.com at the Kensington Roof Gardens. The theme of the night is anything related to James Bond. Let your imagination roam free, there is much more than simply coming dressed as "James Bond"!

For those who have the time to read, check http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Bond.
We found some good ideas at http://www.fancydressideaslist.com/james-bond-fancy-dress-ideas. And http://getaspecialdeal.co.uk/products. (We are not affiliated with the merchants).

This is the program of the nigh:
When: 3rd Feb 2012 from 7.30pm.
Where: The Kensington Roof Gardens, 99 Kensington High St, W8 5SA London, United Kingdom, tel. 020 7937 7994 http://www.roofgardens.com
Ladies £10 between 7 and 10pm £20 after
Guys £15 between 7 and 10pm £20 after.
Dress code, James Bond themed and/or anything smart and elegant.

Doors open at 7pm. Security (forgive them if they have a strong Russian accent) will search you for guns and weapons.

There will be prizes for the best dresses of the night. You also then receive a sheet with 3 clues to guess, who are the guests & who are the 3 characters of the night.

James Bond
James Bond girl
The Villain

Those who wish to take up the offer of our sponsor can request a code to sign up for www.CityDating.com on the night. We will give you a business card of Jolanta from CityDating and all you have to do, is to hand your details back to her or call her after the party.

Ps. Just to clarify, you do NOT have to dress in theme, if you do not want to. Also you are welcome to bring your most glamorous friends, the more the merrier!

Ciao!

Jolanta & The CityDating Team
t: 0778 5225 444

Our Scariest Elite Halloween Party feedback.

2011-11-07T02:37:00.000-08:00

F. said: 'Hi,
It was a good night out & I had a great time! Thank you for inviting me! See u...'

Aggie said: 'Thank you for such a lovely Halloween Party!!!

L. said: 'Thank you so much for inviting me to your party on Saturday. A great thing. Should have come earlier...'

J. said: ‘Thanks, it was a great evening.’

Scariest Elite Halloween Party in London!

2011-10-24T02:33:00.000-07:00

London's Scariest Halloween! Join the blood-spattered party & come dressed to kill
for your chance to win a Magnum of Pommery Champagne. Sexiest girls costume
and scariest boys will each win a prize. * FREE 1 fresh vampire blood shot for 100 first Halloweenests with password: Scary Vampire! CityDating.com/Socialising.

When: 29th Oct 2011 from 21:00
Where: Trader Vic's, London Hilton on Park Lane, 22 Park Lane, Mayfair W1K 4BE, tel. 020 7208 4113 London, England (United Kingdom).

Starts from 21:00, dressing code Chic & Classy Halloween!, with live music and freaky scary face-painting*, an entrance fee of £15 from 21:30. The top Latino will start his set from 23.30 to make you twist your hips sharp. *Face painting will start from 22.00 at £7.00 per person.

The CityDating Team t: 0778 5225 444

Our Black & White Party Feedback

2011-09-26T02:41:00.003-07:00

"Hi Jolanta,
simply amazing night and amazing cool people, i did not see you to thank you but many thanks - you also looked great
best regards
eu"

Elite Networking Black & White Party! Welcome back to London!

2011-09-21T02:39:00.000-07:00

Hey there Elite People....

The list is filling up nicely... and it's an exclusive invitation only event.
Nearly last chance to attend....RSVP ASAP!!

For all the ones are joining us, please make sure you arrive at 9.30 pm to start enjoying the evening and champagne. x

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To Beautiful Single People!

This is an extraordinary opportunity to socialise with a very Elite group of London
Intl individuals in a most sought after location Hilton Park Lane Mayfair with great
exotic Caribbean atmosphere... DJ, Rum n Champagne coctails & Tahitian beach-hut
bar to celebrate!!
When: 24th Sep 2011 from 21:00
Where: Trader Vic's, London Hilton on Park Lane
22 Park Lane, Mayfair
W1K 4BE, tel. 020 7208 4113
London, England (United Kingdom)
Link: TraderVicsLondon.com
RSVP: CityDating@citydating.co.uk

The people who will attend the event are chic, successful, happy and interesting. They share many interests & cosmopolitan life style, great success in business and are happy to socialise with one another, sometimes get together for good, sometimes having a fun time at parties.

DRESS CODE: Chic & Class! Black & White!

See you there
The CityDating Team x
t: 0778 5225 444

Important 12 Dating early warning signs

2011-08-18T02:52:00.001-07:00

1. On the first date he suggests you have sex
Men have sex on their minds and sometimes they can’t help but voice their carnal intentions. This is normal: A man’s spoken desire to rip your clothes off may even turn you on. However, if all he seems to talk about from date one is getting you in his bed, he may take you as being easy. When 'let’s get busy' comes before 'what’s your name?' it’s a sign that he’s only interested in getting to know you on a sexual, not personal, level.
2. He doesn’t make you feel special
Your boyfriend is supposed to love you. He’s supposed to make you feel like the most beautiful, intelligent, wonderful woman in the world. If he’s not making you feel special, it’s time to re-evaluate how he is making you feel. We’d take a wild guess it’s something other than good.
3. His idea of a date is a booty call
You’d be surprised how many women confuse late night hookups with actual relationships. You should know that if a guy’s truly interested in you, he’s going to take you out, not merely invite you to join him once he’s already at the bar with his boys, or call you after midnight just to 'see what you’re up to.' And if that’s exactly what’s going on, then you, my friend, are merely his last resort when he can’t find another bird to take home.
4. He doesn’t fight fair
Whether it’s because your guy’s defensive or just an idiot, if he becomes excessively aggressive when the two of you have an argument, he isn’t fighting fair, possibly the most detrimental trait of a bad communicator.
Instead of dealing with the present, a boyfriend on the defense will often dig up the past, diverting the conversation away from him (which almost always means he knows he did something wrong).
You should never put up with your boyfriend attacking you on a personal level, which includes telling you 'you’re just like your mother,' and, our favourite, calling you 'crazy.'
5. He’s never around when you need him the most
A guy who doesn’t support you during a time of real need certainly won’t hold your hand through the birth of your child, the deaths of your parents, and any other high-stress or grief-ridden situations that you’re sure to face.
Part of the perk of having a long-term beau is that you don’t have to go through life’s ups and downs alone. If he takes off when the going gets tough, you’re better off going at it alone.
6. He gushes about another woman
Whether he can’t shut up about his new co-worker, yoga teacher, or supposed 'friend,' if your guy goes on and on about another woman, he could be guilty of emotional cheating and may not be far from physical cheating.
His focus on this particular woman may start with a few short mentions and slowly graduate to extended conversations about everything from her career choice to her coffee choice.
7. He’s secretive with his phone
If he’s always receiving calls in the middle of the night, and takes them in another room, or grabs his phone the second it rings in the hopes that you won’t see the caller ID, he’s probably not talking to his mother.
Don’t fall for lines like 'It’s a work call' or 'That’s an old college friend,' because he’s probably telling the same exact thing to the other women he’s seeing when you call. Often the amount of secret texts he sends is directly related to how many women he’s sleeping with.
8. He’s lazy in bed
A laggard guy always positions you on top so he can lie there while you do all the work or pass out after you give him head so he doesn’t have to reciprocate.
Sure, it may require some effort to get a gal off, but if you continually ask your man to go down on you and in response he sighs and gives a half-hearted 'fine,' he’s officially lazy in bed. And we hate to say it, but if your man isn’t proactive in bed, he may be the type who expects everyone else, especially you, to pick up his slack in other areas of his life.
9. He’s a stage-5 clinger
Relationships work best when two people have their own, independent lives apart from the one they share. A man shouldn’t need you to continually entertain him or spend every second with him.
You signed up to be your guy’s girlfriend, partner, or wife, not his security blanket. Think about whether his attachment is because he loves spending time with you or because he needs you to navigate each day. If it’s the latter, you’re more compass than companion.
10. He tells his mum everything
Mummy’s boys are in constant communication with their mothers. You may not realise it, but if you’re dating one, his mum probably knows every intimate detail of your relationship, and takes liberty to weigh in on every argument the two of you have. Chances are, you’ll have to listen to her opinion, a mummy’s boy isn’t shy about voicing what’s on his mummy’s mind.
11. He’s stingy with personal details
Most men aren’t going to pour their hearts out and sob on your shoulder. They’ve been conditioned to believe that real men don’t cry. And while your boyfriend isn’t required to shed tears in front of you, it would be nice if he could clue you in as to what he’s thinking every now and then.
If you’ve been dating your man for months, but you still haven’t heard one mention of his childhood or career aspirations, something’s not right.
12. He’s a text-a-holic
With e-mailing, texting, instant messaging, and Facebook, a true discussion has become easier than ever to avoid. We understand the inclination to hide behind electronics: It’s easier to tell a gal something embarrassing, devastating, or risqué when you don’t have to look her in the face.

2011-02-16T01:19:00.001-08:00

PIRATES OF VALENTINE’S ISLAND

2011-02-08T02:01:00.000-08:00

Ahoy there! Long ago and far away lived a mean and nasty pirate called Valentine. He roamed the seas with his band of cut-throats kidnapping beautiful women and handsome man from any ships they boarded and these treasures remain hidden at the most unknown locations on the Island.
You can discover Valentine's Booty in Hilton Park Lane. You are invited to come and unearth it.
Program:

* Special Guest: UK's Award Winning Johnny Depp/Captain Jack Sparrow Melo Sparrow TBC
* Live Gipsy King Tribute Band
* Doubloons as drink tokens.
* Special Rum and Valentine's Cocktails
* DJ and Dancing all night
* Only beautiful women and handsome man.

Dress code: Pirates, 1700's or smart.
Saturday 12th February from 9.30pm till morning.
Entry £ 15 with one cocktail included, please pay by PayPal to CityDating@citydating.co.uk. Advice your name here for the Guestlist http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=192510384100242

Foreign girls = a nicer "no"

2010-10-29T01:23:00.001-07:00

Thinking to myself as I flew across the desert sand questions of the Middle East en route to landing in Tel Aviv - weren't the air hostesses of the past much hotter than the ones today? I've seen Catch Me If You Can. Stop. Pause. Bad behaviour. Have been warned not to compare women, much less treat them as objects. Note to self that I shouldn't do that again. Unless I'm trying to be a "bad boy"- in which case I can do that all I like. Spot conundrum? Told to be good, by those who would prefer me to be bad. Hmmm...

Israeli girls shock me. Firstly, they're all speaking English which means I can talk to them, which is a very good start. Secondly, they're beautiful, all types of course, from Ethiopian to Russian. But mostly, it's the directness that is appealing. The self confidence, bred into them no doubt by the unique situation they find themselves in, speaks volumes. Eye contact is long, sometimes lingering, and a particular woman just chooses to sit unnaturally close to me. We're not embarrassed. It's nice...

I'm beginning to think this could be the place for me when a pretty waitress wants to know ALL about me. We flirt, I think, although in hindsight, I think she was just talking. Sitting in a Tel Aviv bar at 2am and feeling ok with the world. Ask the waitress if I can meet her later... and of course, no. At least, I think, the no was just part of the conversation - not the reason for the conversation itself.

On arriving back in London I say hello to a girl at the baggage carousel. She looks at me like I'm a rapist. Back to reality.
JAG

I'm a single guy...

2010-10-26T01:41:00.000-07:00

First stop on road to recovery - throwing myself back in the mix in a brutal way. I'm no barfly chat up specialist, but neither am I a wallflower, so speed dating seems to be the happy middle. Applying the "quantity will pay off" method... Like buying so many raffle tickets that you probably win, but definitely lose. I tried not to be too cynical though - there are women out there just like me I thought to myself.

Sitting down in the posh-ish venue and waiting for the bell to ring, I thought to myself "am I gladiator, or just a somewhat nice guy?" The answer in front of me from Lady number one was the hitherto unplanned for "ugh! how long do I have to talk to this guy?" At least bad chemistry is chemistry I thought to myself... I'm giving off something. On to a row of girls who all clearly knew each other, and worse, there was no one in front of me in the guy cycle... so Lady number two talked to me as Lady number three listened. A common schtick was impossible, she heard all my best lines... When I sat down in front of Lady number three... I was lost for words. After a minute of fumbling, a miracle happened: we started talking normally.

Some glasses of wine and endless explanations of my job later I met Lady number ten. An attractive friendly woman from the north, if a little over my age limit, I decided to cut to the chase and ask her for a date during our six minute chat. She said no. On the matching form later, she said yes. As did apparently most of the ladies... I got 5 matches out of ten, and I chose only 6... great hit rate! Why can't I transfer that out to a real bar situation!

And then, and then... I emailed my matches... and... 1 replied. A poor hit rate. The cynic in me says they only matched with me to see if I would choose them. Dishonesty at the heart of the equation. Makes guys circumspect, and even... distrustful...
JAG

Hello from a CityDating.com member,

2010-08-17T02:42:00.000-07:00

Great to meet you, I have something to share with you. I have noticed that as ‘Men thing less, Women have to think more’. What I mean is that we can’t call men too often but they can call us, we can’t have sex on the first date as we seem easy, I wonder why men don’t seem easy then? We must remember many other things like we can’t say ‘I love you’ first and so on. Why...? Now we girls are tired of those games and would like men to think more, so we can relax and enjoy life as much.

CityDating.com - Matching Busy Professional Singles

2010-08-12T02:28:00.000-07:00

Matching Busy Professional Singles; 1000s of great, excusive single city professionals are just waiting for you!